Stress affects us physically, emotionally, cognitively and in our behaviour, so we should consider supporting these areas when building our resilience. We can’t ‘manage stress’ but we can build our resilience, learn new ways of responding, and enjoy improved health and wellbeing.
Do a stressor audit
What are your stressors, the sources of your stress. Can you change the circumstance around this, can you get help to problem-solve, do you need new skills, would it help if you got more exercise?
Do a stress symptom audit
How is stress affecting you? Have you been knocking back tubs of ice-cream, screaming at the kids, having panic attacks, do you feel depressed and isolated, are you finding it hard to concentrate and remember important things?
Set goals and priorities
Once you have worked out the biggest issues, then set your priorities. Work out what must be done, what you can and can’t change, what you can remove from your list altogether.
Get support
Doing the above audits can help work out who might best help you. It might be time for a medical check, especially if you have any chest pain, palpitations or shortness of breath. A counsellor or psychologist will be able to help with emotional and behavioural symptoms. Friends and family can also be invaluable supports and just staying connected can help with stress even if they don’t help solve any specific problem.
Establish routines
Rhythms and routines can help ground you, help you organise your time and ensure you build in exercise and fun activities and can be re-assuring.
Get regular exercise
It doesn’t have to be intense, a 30 minute walk can help clear your mind, boost your mood and help with fitness. (Note, if you are having chest pain, palpitations or shortness of breath then check with your doctor before starting an exercise program).
Practice a relaxation technique
Building in an activity that relaxes is essential. Options include yoga, meditation, mindfulness techniques and tai chi. You can do these individually or in a class, use a video or podcast or take a course such as the Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction Program. It may be that for you the most relaxed you are is when you garden or do some other activity you love, so do more of that.
Boost your nutrition
There is much that you can do with nutrition to support you during times of stress. Coffee may feel like it helping when you have a deadline to meet, but too much coffee can worsen anxiety, digestive symptoms and sleep. Avoid excess sugar, have loads of vegetables and make sure you have some omega 3 fatty acids from oily fish, flaxseed or walnuts. When you are stressed you have additional nutritional requirements, especially for B vitamins, magnesium and nutrients that provide the building blocks for neurotransmitters and at this time supplementation may be of benefit.
Consider herbal medicine
Herbal medicine may help reduce feelings of stress, anxiety and depression, support adrenal and brain function and improve energy and sleep. In addition, herbal medicine may help manage symptoms of stress such as digestive disturbance.